Divorce is never easy and moving out after a divorce can seem like the perfect storm. This guide can help you deal with the stressful and very emotional process.
- Finalize your divorce before moving out. It may be tempting to move out if your separation is highly contentious. Most lawyers would advise against this. You don’t want to give your spouse any additional leverage
- Take inventory of what is yours. Dividing personal property that was acquired jointly is a very stressful process. Try not to dig your heels in. As the saying goes “stuff” can be replaced.
- Decide what sentimental items you’re willing to part with. Stay positive and focus on the fact that it’s a fresh start
- Have a garage sale or list unwanted items online. Consider using Facebook Marketplace, Kijiji, or Craigslist. Sort out and donate any unwanted clothing or furniture.
- Consider hiring a professional packer. There’s so much to do during a divorce: don’t sweat the small stuff, seek help for mundane tasks like packing. Also consider using frogbox an eco-friendly, reusable alternative to cardboard boxes — and they pick up and deliver, too.
- Book Your Movers. The sooner the better. Try to get a firm quote on the cost of the move. Compare costs with different moving companies.
- Book a storage facility if needed. Storage facilities are in high demand, so you might want to make it a top priority.
- Arrange for cut-off and activation dates.This includes cable, internet, gas, electricity, water, garbage, and recycling.
- Deal with changing your address. Submit a change of address at the post office or online; change the address on your driver’s license; change the address on your car and home insurance.
- If you have children, limit their involvement with the move. It can be traumatic for them. Arrange a play date for your children on the day of the move.